Dating and marriage customs in romania
It is important to stress that it is sometimes better to not reveal a secret - if it will cause undue and unnecessary damage with no benefit.
However, it is the belief of this therapist that most secrets are better brought out into the open.
One of the most toxic problems confronting many families is the existence of secrets that prevent open communication and ultimately lead to serious health and mental health problems for family members.
In the end, some families are unable to maintain their cohesiveness because of family secrets.
I recently read an excellent novel called The Memory Keeper's Daughter.
This novel describes a tragic incident that leads to a secret being kept and that has even more tragic consequences later in the lives of all the characters who are unable to communicate with each other because of the existence of the secret.
Other families locked their mentally ill relative in a room and maintained isolation and secrecy about this person.
C) Rape: I have a number of female patients who were raped either during their early adolescence, late adolescence or adulthood, and who kept the crime a complete secret.
As a result, there are those unfortunate families who keep the adoption a secret from their children.5) A woman knows she is adopted but her parents fail to tell her that her biological mother is alive and has made inquiries about her because she wanted to meet her.