Older women and younger men dating sites
By “much younger women” I’m usually talking about VYW, which I define as women between the age of 18 and 23.
There are three types of VYW: By “older men” I’m talking about men between the ages of 30 and 49 or so, though men in their 50s who have followed my advice and taken care of themselves physically certainly apply also.
Here then are the four mistakes men most often make when trying to attract younger women.
Mistake 1: Trying To Act Younger This is the granddaddy of them all.
The older man / younger women stuff also generally applies to any man who is hitting up any woman of legal age who is more than 10 years younger than he is.
(Since men hitting up women within one to nine years younger is considered “normal” by society in most cases.) So in a way, a 45 year old man working with a 26 year old woman would apply here, even though she’s technically not a VYW.
Instead of talking about what to do to attract and date much younger women, something I’ve talked about before, today I’ll discuss what to do.
Instead of being a creepy older guy, you need to be a confident, especially if you’re talking over texts, online, or in a public place, and/or if you have not established clear rapport yet. I see way too many older guys who do have chances with younger women completely blow it by being too creepy, too verbally sexual, way too fast.That doesn’t mean you cross the line, but it does mean you are very aggressive, and err on the side of “creepy” rather than “nice guy”.This is very, very good advice, I do this myself, and I recommend it to all men across the board……except older guys trying to hit up much younger women. If you’re older and she’s much younger, you need to be non-creepy.
If you start talking about how hot her boobs are or tell her how you “can’t wait to get her back to your place”, she’s going to vanish fast, even if she’s a Type 2.Younger women is a topic I haven’t discussed here in a while. If you’re much younger than 30 you’re welcome to read on if you’re curious, since this is something that will be affecting you in a few years.