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Below are a few of my suggestions that will hopefully help you decrease your recovery time, and maybe minimize the amount of mistakes made along the way…Here’s hoping, at any rate! (“Emotional Rehab”) – which is basically just my way of saying that it might be “time to go cold turkey” – at least for a little while!
As tempting as it is, if you are still in love with your EX, and he or she doesn’t reciprocate the feelings and intensity, then you’re better off making a clean break. Most people choose to ignore my advice, and remain their ex’s friend – somehow imagining if they do continue to be this wonderful, supportive friend, their EX will miraculously see the err of their ways – and take them back. Now some of you will insist on remaining “friends” with your ex (or have to due to classes, jobs or children together), so if you are attempting this, be sure to set some ground rules.
ED NOTE: You can always use a website like to vent anonymously too.
This is something that both men and women can, and need, to do.
If that seems to drastic, at least put them onto a disc or burn them CD, (stick them in the Cloud, e.g. BUDDY LISTS: As in number two, remove and block them from your buddy lists.
Have candle lit dinners – with all of your favorite foods – just for you. I have known some people to actually go out and buy whole new beds. There is something to be said for sleeping in bedding with no history and no memories.Do something so simple as to having a manicure, facial or a massage.Or, maybe purchase that nifty gadget you’ve had your eye on. )Whatever treating yourself means to you – do it periodically to perk yourself up a bit!For the early days/weeks, I suggest that you just box up all of the stuff until you feel ready to face it.
Eventually you’ll be able to look at the holiday snaps without feeling sick to your stomach, but not right now. In a year’s time, or whatever, if you do still feel like dumping or even torching the stuff, then do it somewhere safe – like the beach!Again in time you can re-add them back to your phone but in the early days, weeks or even months, keeping them out of the phone can be a wise move, in order to resist that all-consuming desire for contact!