Wife dating other men
I dont see him but I know that since his a very decent boy and sincere.I have also grown to have feelings for him but I try and hide it all the time.Whatever Allaah makes easy for him is what is good, but if he waits until he feels good about it or sees a dream and the like, these are usually illusionary matters on which no shar’i ruling can be based.Based on the above, you should push away all whispers from the shaytaan that have to do with this matter, and do not give evil any way of reaching you or your family or children.Is it possible for me to make istikaara whilst married and also what do we do?Please make duaa for me and help me in this very diffcult situation as I dont want to cause any pain to my husband and my family. Allaah has caused men to be attracted to women, and women to be attracted to men, and this inclination sometimes results in haraam relationships such as zina, and sometimes it results in permissible relationships such as marriage.Allaah has made the wife a covering for her husband and has made the husband a covering for his wife.Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning): “They are Libaas [i.e. you enjoy the pleasure of living with them)] for you and you are the same for them” [al-Baqarah 7] One of the blessings that Allaah bestows upon some spouses is that He creates love and compassion between them, and helps each of them to do that which causes harmony to grow in the family and ward off disputes and arguments.
If he loves you although you are married, then how can you be sure that he will not fall in love with someone else who is also married or not married?These doubts will persist and will be a cause of anxiety for both of you.